May has been full of graduations. First, my own, at Kent State. Then graduation at our vocational school, TCTC, and last night, I attended and helped facilitate my first graduation as Superintendent.
I wrote the speech yesterday morning, about ketchup and my dad. Here it is, in its raw form how I wrote it.
Introduction
Ladies and gentlemen, Board of Education Members, President Johnson, family, friends, faculty, and most importantly, the graduating class of 2025:
My name is Andreas Johansson, Superintendent of Newton Falls Exempted Village Schools, and it is my pleasure to welcome you all today to Newton Falls High School graduation, here in the iconic Gene Zorn Gymnasium.
Recognizing Staff & Parents
I want to thank our staff for not only being here today but also for their passion, dedication, and grace in helping you, our graduates, navigate the last 13 years of your educational journey.
Their dedication to the teaching craft is evident in all facets of our school; without them, we’d be lost. It is through their hard work and commitment to you, our students, that you are now graduating from high school and embarking on a new adventure we call life.
Thank you, faculty!
[applause]
And to our families, parents, grandparents, community members, and audience members – without you, we could not carry on the mission of school.
Newton Falls will forever be part of this community, and we look forward to your support in the years to come. We have big plans for next school year, and invite you to partner with us on the educational journey of your children, our students, and this country’s future leaders.
Thank you, families and community members!
[applause]
Graduates – if I could ask you to stand, turn to the audience, and recognize those who made you what you are today…and let’s give them a round of applause.
[applause]
A Piece of Advice
I want to share one piece of advice with you today – something that has served me well in my whole life, and was instilled in me by my father’s action.
It’s about making a decision. And what happens if you don’t.
But first, imagine for a moment, that you’re at the grocery store shopping for a backyard barbeque, and you need ketchup. Do you pick the regular Heinz, or any of the other brands, or do you go organic, or extra spicy? What about mayochup? Or something more sweet? What about the new hot honey that’s available?
It can certainly be overwhelming. But you have to pick a ketchup.
For those of you who are fans of economics, you know it’s the science of choice.
You’re faced with a classic cost-benefit analysis.
How do you maximize the return on your investment and get the ketchup that most people will like? What happens if you pick the wrong kind? What if no one likes ketchup, and everyone wanted mustard?
And worst of all, what if you don’t pick anything at all?
You see, making a decision isn’t easy.
In life, you have to make decisions all the time – from easy things, like ketchup, or more difficult things, like who you’re gonna spend the rest of your life with. Or not.
And it all comes down to simple choice and willingness to act.
** Make the best decision you can, with the information you have at the time. **
Then drive forward, gather more information, and make another decision if you have to.
And if you made the wrong decision, make another one quickly. No need to look backwards.
That’s sunk cost, stuff in the past, and no one’s interested in what you did last year, or in the last job, or what you served at the last barbecue.
It’s what you do now, today, and consistently going forward, that matters.
** Here’s what happens if you don’t make a decision. **
Life decides for you, and you risk consequences you weren’t prepared for.
My dad was a rescue diver in the Swedish Coast Guard when I was your age.
He was a hard man, and nothing faced him. He remained calm, mostly, steadfast in his belief that he could use his skills, passion, and experience to navigate the worst that the North Sea had to offer.
I grew up 400 meters from that shoreline and learned a lot about leadership from him.
Today is his birthday, and he’s turning 78. Spry as always, he was going to work on his new batch of chickens that just arrived yesterday. The price of eggs is not something he’s worried about.
Always busy, always making decisions, and driving forward. He would probably take a break later today, he said, for another cup of coffee and a slice of cake. For his birthday.
** Here’s what happens when you don’t make a decision. **
Dad came home one week with a story of a couple he’d rescued from a storm. This story is one of many from his life on the open sea, and as a rescue diver, boat commander, and later, national incident commander for the whole country of Sweden, he’s full of examples where decision-making has mattered.
The couple, a husband and wife, had been sailing and forgot to pay attention to the weather. A storm had rolled in, and being inexperienced, one thing had led to another, and they were now in real trouble and had hailed the Coast Guard.
Dad geared up, swam over in the stormy ocean waves, and told them what would happen next.
“You’re boat is sinking. I’m taking you to safety. You’re first,” he said to the wife. “I’ll be back for you in a bit,” he told the husband.
In the water they went, to safety aboard the Coast Guard patrol boat, and he came back for the husband who was clinging to the railing of the now-sinking vessel.
“Let’s go! It’s time to get off this thing,” he shouted to the husband in the storm.
“No! I can’t leave this boat! But I don’t wanna die, either!” was the return message.
The husband refused to make a decision about staying or going.
In choosing between life or death, or seeing his sailing vessel perish, or his bravery fail in the face of real danger, he became paralyzed.
** Decision paralysis is a real thing. **
Just like you, in the ketchup aisle, picking between a million options, paralysis had set in, and he couldn’t take the next step to save his own life.
So, Dad decided for him. Fist to face, knocked him out, threw him in the water, and swam him to safety.
Here’s the lesson:
You have to get good at making decisions. Regardless of what you’re facing.
It could be ketchup, or a new job, or a relationship, or travel plans, or tonight’s dinner. Or it could be life or death, or the choice between being content or truly happy.
Whatever you do, make the call, with the best information you have at the time, and drive forward. The worst thing that can happen is that you need to make another decision, quickly.
And if you don’t, someone else will make the decision for you.
Lead your life. Make decisions.
Carry on that legacy, which is you graduating from Newton Falls High School, today. The decision to do so, is a great one, and I stand ready to support you for the rest of your life.
And if you need help, or learn how to grocery shop, or learn how to drive, or anything else – we’re here to help, always. Make the decision to stay connected.
Newton Falls will always be the place where you started the rest of your life.
Never forget that.
And never stop making the RIGHT decisions for yourself and others in your care.
*** Thank you. ***